When should we start music lessons?

Learning to read music is similar to learning a foreign language. The earlier you start, the better. Young children are not self-conscious. Learning through making mistakes is a way of life for them. As we grow older, we become less forgiving of ourselves and too fearful of not doing new things right the first time. Therefore, learning a new language, like music, can be a great adventure for an elementary-age child.

For children younger than age five, there are programs in most communities that foster music appreciation in young children by exposing them to rhythm, the varied sounds of many instruments, and personal expression. Kindermusik provides detailed information on developing an appreciation of music in young children and finding a class near you.

Many music teachers recommend waiting until at least the age of five to begin formal music lessons. At that point, the piano is usually a good choice. It provides a strong musical foundation, and basic ability at the piano can serve as a springboard to the eventual study of other instruments. Most wind and string instruments require a bit more physical maturity and finger dexterity, even for beginning students.

Most importantly, before considering private music lessons, make sure your child has reached a level of social and emotional maturity - regardless of age. The ability to concentrate, focus, and maintain an attention span for 20 - 30 minutes is a must. Sticking to this commitment will result in much greater success and enjoyment for your child. If your child has trouble maintaining focus for this time period, it's probably best to wait.

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