Summary

If you live in a district that provides families with choices for school attendance, you may find this to be both a wonderful opportunity and, at times, a nerve-wracking dilemma. Arming yourself with information obtained from a variety of sources, including your first-hand observations, will make the process easier. It is important to remember that no decision is irreversible, and a decision made at kindergarten may not fit the child a few years later. Generally schools allow some degree of choice each year. Remember also that it may not be possible to get your first choice, particularly if your preference is for a very popular program. Schools usually ask that you list two or three preferences, so it is important that you do not focus solely on one “perfect” match for your child.

Finally, keep in mind that regardless of the organization and curricular focus of a school program, the single most important factor is the relationship between the child and teacher(s), closely followed by the relationship between the school and parent. When these relationships are positive, children can thrive and succeed regardless of the nature of the school structure or curriculum. Good instruction, and good communication, are key in every school.

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